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PSYCHOLOGY + ATTACHMENT + relationships
Understand your patterns, build secure relationships, and become who you were before survival took over.
nice to meet you
I'm Christina
I used to believe healing meant becoming someone completely different.
Then I discovered something that changed everything:
Nothing was wrong with me.
My anxious attachment, rejection sensitivity, overthinking, perfectionism, and constant need to "have it all together" weren't character flaws. They were survival strategies.
you're not alone if...
- You Overthink every conversation after it ends
- You feel responsible for everyone else's emotions
- You wonder why you keep repeating the same relationships patterns
- You feel like your mind never truly quiets down
- You constantly question whether you're "too much"
- You feel exhausted from trying to hold everything together
let’s get back to who you really are…
Somewhere along the way, you learned to survive.
You became the people pleaser. The overthinker. The perfectionist. The one who always held it together. The one who questioned every decision and carried everyone else's emotions.
Those patterns didn't appear because something was wrong with you.
They developed because your mind was trying to protect you.
Healing isn't about becoming someone new.
It's about understanding why those patterns exist, learning how to work with your nervous system instead of against it, and reconnecting with the version of you that existed before survival became your default.
Welcome back to yourself.
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Christina, has shown me and my family on being proficient on what she does. Her vibe is very welcoming and has given me peace about some details that were concerning to me. Thanks Christina - Marylee
One of the best readers I have ever come across. Always accurate for me after some years. Highly recommend ✨
- Carol S
I have been working with Christina for over a year and I love her !!!! Her readings and spiritual guidance are like a blend of therapy, divine messages, and talking to your best girlfriend all at once !!!
She is insightful and understanding and has supported me through some major life changes and relationship challenges.
- Jaime W
Just perfect! Honest direct and very clear reading, no sugar coating. High Recommendation!
For years, I helped people search for answers through tarot.
But I realized something unexpected.
People weren't looking for predictions.
They were looking for understanding.
That discovery led me to psychology, attachment theory, and the study of human behavior. Today, I'm pursuing my Master's in Marriage & Family Therapy to help people understand their minds, heal their patterns, and build healthier relationships.
Welcome to Becoming Her.
My journey to understanding the human mind...
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